Two coffee cups on a café table in soft daylight

The first meeting

Before you book anything, you probably want to know who is going to sit down opposite you. Sensible. This is what that is for.

One hour, a public place, and every question you have.

You pick the place. A café you already like, a terrace in the sun, a hotel bar with the music low enough to talk over. You arrive, I stand up, and then we talk.

Ask me anything. What I do, what I do not do, how the money works, whether I am ever nervous myself. No question is too direct and none is too silly. I have heard most of them, and the ones I have not heard yet are usually the good ones.

After an hour you will know whether this feels right. If it does not, we have had a drink and a proper conversation, which is not a wasted evening by anyone's standards.

Hands around a cup of coffee on a marble table

How it works

  • You choose the location. Always public, always somewhere you already feel safe.
  • One hour. No extension, no drifting into something else.
  • One hundred euro, drinks not included. Nothing else is on the table.
  • Whatever you decide afterwards, you decide at home, in your own time and without me in the room.
Terrace in late afternoon sun with empty chairs

What it costs

100 euro

First meeting, one hour in a public place

On consent and safety

This meeting exists to build trust, not to test it. Nothing happens here except a conversation and possibly a second coffee.