Company, nothing more
Not every woman is looking for sex. Some are looking for someone who is simply there for an afternoon.
Attention and conversation. Nothing else, and that is plenty.
A walk through the Sonian Forest, a museum on a wet Sunday, a lunch long enough that you finally say the thing you have not said to anyone in months.
I listen, I think with you, and I talk back, because sitting in sympathetic silence for four hours is not company, it is therapy without the qualification.
Nothing is expected and nothing is implied. An afternoon of genuine attention can be more intimate than what most people mean by intimacy, and it is considerably harder to find.
How it works
- Minimum four hours.
- You set the programme, or I suggest three things and you veto two.
- Tickets, meals and drinks are not included.
- Dutch, French and English, which helps in a country that has never quite decided.
On consent and safety
The line is clear: no intimacy. It does not move during the meeting, however well the afternoon happens to be going.